Invincible Thinking Thursday – The 5 people you spend the most time with makes a difference

Mark Steel Podcast

ITT - Episode 1 (Full audio below)

We’ve all heard the famous quote “You’re the average of the five people you spend the most time with.”  However, are you living this quote?  Are you being intentional with whom you spend your time?

Look at your network

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  • Family members
  • Coworkers
  • People we are striving to emulate – (If you’re the smartest person in the room, you’re in the wrong room)
  • Mentors, coaches? – People invested in your success
Your Network Needs to:
  1. Build you up
    • Believe in you. Encourage you. Support you
  2. Make you happy
    • Positive people.  Enjoy spending time with them.  Laughter. Relaxing
    • We don’t need negativity – Mom
  3. Challenge you
    • Make you stop and think.  Make you want to learn. Teach you new things
  4. Celebrate You
    • Small stuff, big stuff.  Just everyday stuff
    • Don’t forget to celebrate them
InvincibleThinking Thursday Challenge

Take a few minutes to write down the names of the people with whom you spend most of your time.  Then write down, what do they give you.  How are they adding value and impact to your life?

Now decide, do you need to make any changes?  Don’t be afraid to make adjustments, even when they’re hard.  Your life will be better for it.

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Mark Steel is a professional speaker and Communications Skills coach.  With over 20 years of professional speaking experience, Mark is dynamic, engaging, informative, and fun.  Sales, leadership, and team-building audiences rave about Mark’s “Invincible Thinking’ keynotes.  In addition, Mark works with executives and professionals to ensure when they speak, the audience is listening.  Mark is a married father of two living outside Chicago, Il and he is an avid rock climber.  #ClimbOn